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Love = Full Circle - Fear = Half Circle
Is love an illusion?
What is love? Love of the physical, love of the spirit/soul? Or universal love of the divine spark? But most of all love should be unconditional
We all experience love, from being the baby to toddler, to teenager, to adult, love as a child is unconditional love for our parents and life, the innocence of the child. During our childhood things can happen that change our perception of love.
Love can bring extreme happiness to self and others. Love and can bring death in a crime of passion. Is that we feel we cannot handle, that could be fears, that we cannot handle emotion, is it right, is it wrong.
I have personally found the most wonderful feeling of love is when you link on soul level, and link to another on that level.. there is no way of explaining what this feels like as there are no words, as well as love on soul level, to feel the love from spirit again there are no words… I have felt this love from spirit more often than not when I wake in the morning, and as you wake you have this wonderful yet sad feeling as you realise that you are here on earth and not with the spirit.. or the divine spark that is us.. the part of one whole of universal love, yet the small spark that we are. As we grow up from children to adults and during our adulthood, we get many knocks and hurts as well as finding out who we are in our sexuality, which brings confusion to many. More and more people are having deep and meaningful relationships with those of the same sex, yet this is still frowned upon, Why? Could it be lack of understanding of people.
As spirit, we have no sex, we are energy, when we enter the physical body, we then are either male or female, yet as we progress into a new era of change, known as the age of Aquarius, we are now learning to bring in both energies into our being and lives, which is to find that balance, which does not always happen, men can show more of a feminine energy, females can show more of a male energy, but that does not make them ‘gay’ they just use more of this energy. Young people today are more loving and hugging within their relationships, especially of the same sex, and this is one area that we as a physical being have come a long way, more open to feelings, more open to show these feelings.Love is about expressing what you feel, it does not mean that sex is love, but love is deeper than this, when you meet another soul and feel a soul love, the depth of feeling is so strong, that you feel your spirit within stir, the spirit within wants to be released and be with the love of the other soul, is this recognition for a soul from the past, or is it that spirit within recognises that there is hurt within another and wants to help heal the person?
More often than not, those that have been abused in one way or another will look and search for love, that inner pull, that something missing from their lives, but how long can this search go on? What happens when you find that love, how much love can one person give to another? When we give love to another, on soul level or healing level, how many are judged that they are having an affair, or someone is ‘gay’, again is it lack of understanding others? Or people being too judgmental and nasty to hurt people? Let’s face it, we have got so materialistic that we only see what we want to see, we see what we have been programmed to see. Love has many different emotions and brings up many different feelings.. Love can turn to hate, Love can bring on jealousy, Love can turn to murder, Love can bring on insecurity which can stem from childhood, Love can bring on fear of rejection, as they will feel they are not worthy of love, so much so, that one can destroy what they have by self destruction.
How many people get married or live with their partner and then find they are so lonely? The love they thought they had, has gone, but stay together? I have often heard more with the female sex than male, how a women understand another women, but I would feel this works both ways with the male sex after all, how different are the sexes yet nature has made it that we find a mate, fall in love, marry or live together and produce the next generation.
Full Circle – Half Circle?
You walk your path in this life, and something happens within your life and changes how you feel about your partner, you feel alone, rejected, unknowingly, you put out feelings on a subconscious level you want to be loved, you feel unworthy of who you are, you doubt the love that you had for your partner, then someone crosses your path and a stir within of feelings for another opposite sex, same sex, you find something different, something special, something that fulfils you – what do you do? do you take what is in front of you or do you walk away and regret what could have been – the feelings that have stirred within, are not necessary for a full on affair, but you have found someone that can love you for you, accept who you are unconditionally it is just love? What do you do? Do you find yourself feeling guilty even if things are bad with your partner? That you have other feelings, Or do you accept that love that is from another, a love within that someone wants to give you, to envelope you in that love, to hold you, to be with you, to enjoy that special time? Do you go full circle and experience the moment that moment may only happen once… is the love that is being offered to help heal within you, a healing that is needed? So you can move on? Let go of the past, and feel love like you have never felt before, and then learn to bring the love that you have felt into your being so you can self love? Knowing if you are loved that much, you can self love.
Do you stop what you are feeling and walk away, is it the fear of being loved, is it the fear that what you are feeling could be perceived of having an affair, if you have a same sex friend and you have feelings for them, does it make you feel this is wrong, you cannot feel this for another of the same sex and walk away? As this is not the norm with society? You only complete the half circle.
Life is about choices, actions and reactions, if we have something to deal with, and we walk away, it will come back at a later time, it may not be the same, but the experience could be harder or stronger with feelings than before, what do you do, do you run or stay and experience the moment and then move on, as you have had the experience that was needed.
With events in life, because of conditioning, what we perceive is wrong, may not be wrong as you have to look at it from the spiritual aspect, if we agree that the spirit is here to experience life’s lessons, life’s evolution, then to experience in the moment would be the right thing to do and you could look at it if it was not mean’t to be, it would not be happening? How do we work through issues from our past if we ignore our present and who crosses our path. – is it that when things happen within a love relationship from parents, to children, sisters and friends, do we get in the situation of the ‘rock and a hard place’ But the problem with being in the moment, to feel something for another on such a deep level, is that as bad as betraying the person that you are with?
In a perfect world, if everyone loved each other, and spread the feeling of love, what a wonderful place earth would be, but sadly it is not the case.
Above is just thoughts for you to think about, about love and your life, love and spirituality.
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